People Not Knowing how to make up THEIR MINDS! & Hurtsing Others in the Process

Some People should Learn to make up their minds and stop sending the wrong messages!.
STOP PLAYING WITH PEOPLS HEARTS AND MAKE UP YOUR MINDS!.

I Want to ask you some questions and I want you to leave a comment with your Answer!.
If You Hard core firlt with someone does that mean you like them?
Does it mean you have a stronge enough feeling for them that you want to date, Go out with them as more then just "Friends" ?.
Or Calling them out of the blue for just the a random question that you know well but just want to hear their voice?.

What are your signs of you liking someone?
Is it Showing up at there house randomly?
Or showing up at a place where you know they are going to be.


Is It When your with them you like to sit REAL close and have play wars?
Is It looking at them in such a way that everyone in the room can see that you truly care for that person?.


Or is it flirting with them for a few years or months just for fun?.
ARe you just playing with their heart cause your bored and would like to have some fun.

Or Do You Send them confusing messages like , One day you discide to show up at there house and flirt constantly with them. Then the next day just act like nothing happened at all and that you dont feel like flirting with them as if they didnt matter as they did the day before. When The other person is so confused and not knowing what the Hell is going on!.


When you play with someones heart, Its really like your ripping it out.

Im Just so sick of of this!, Its a commen thing but it just hurts the one your playing with!.

Love is something you dont play with.
God doesnt play with your heart why would you play with anothers?.

Guys and Gals! Dont Play with someones heart It Hurts BAD!, Make sure you know what you want then let them know. That may Hurt them but not as much as it does if you left them in the dark,Confused and Missled Jumping from acting like you like them so much then acting like they couldnt be worth your time.

This is a story of a friends of mine:
Brook was starting a new church and didnt know anyone there , SO she got in the baby sittin in the nursary and ushering so she could meet people, Sunday school was just finishing so she thought she would join in the fall.
The frist time she walks in to the church there is this guy (Cohen) standing there with his friends, Now she didnt care eventhough he was cute she just didnt care about him and just ignored him.
Every sunday for months he would just watch her!.
Then fall came and She was in the nursary before sunday school then Sunday school and church or having to usher.
Every sunday morning Cohen would come early to sunday school so he could walk past the nursary door and stare at Brook, She knew full well what he was trying to do and just ignored him, She didint even say hi to him!.
Then she would go to sunday school and he would sit straight across from her stareing. When Cohen was looking at her she looked in to his eyes and Saw that he was thinking hard like really hard.
This is the kind of guy that you can not read even if your life was on the line you could not read him! Even when you think you got him pinned to a point he turns around and does what you least expect!.
Sunday school let out and Today she had to usher Now she has been ushering all spring and summer and not once has she seen Cohen usher!, But she goes and puts her books under the table and starts to usher. She looks over to see her team mates and guess whos on the other door eh You guessed its Cohen!.
Every time she would glace over there to make sure she wasnt going to miss the team leaders orders, Well everytime Brook did that Cohen would look straight in to Brooks eyes and Smile this Smile that went straight through you and hit your heart. Well Brook just kept doing what she was doing cause Brook really had no likeings for Cohen.
Then Brook Fell for Cohen but took it slow, She started to flirt back and talking to him on msn and all that stuff then one night at youth she was really sick but went anyways cause Cohen had asked her to come (Cohen had started to e-mail Brook everyday after school and right before school so she woke up to an e-mail every morning) She hid her sickness and went on ,The night started with Cohen and Brook just hanging out with the group and then while making the commercials Cohen took Brooks hand and was flirting with her and she back cause she thought she could, She thought that it was okay and that Cohen really liked her. The Night went on like that and when it came to watching them ,Brook just wanted to stand cause she wasnt feeling well ,Cohen agreed to just stand him unaware of her being sick, Then after awhile of standing they sat down on the gym floor behind everyone else who was wathing the commercials . Cohen put his arm and wrapped it around her waist and pulled her closer to him as they sit there they arnt playing any attion to the commercials at all, People walking by and looking at them in "Awe" at them, some even asking if they where going out lol.
They just replyed with a no.
They went on like that for a month only seeing each other at youth and church. She got him to join her in the christmas play they had to march . Brook got put at the beginings of the line and Cohen at the end as they practiced they would wink, Mouth words and just look in to each others eyes. (Brook thinks Cohen really likes her and that there is going to be somthng of this, This being her frist time falling in love with someone who tried so hard to get her) Then he was late one morning for sunday school and showed up in the nursary to see her, Red Eyes and looks like Crap! He Apoligised for being late and explained he was with a friend that her dad had a heartattack and she needed a ride, That he was with her until 2:am then slept through his alarm. Practice had been canciled that day Brook told him. And Cohen asked if it was ok if he went home and slept , She said yes do that but say hi to your dad frist (He had ben at his mothers all week and was going to sleep at his dads.His dad was at church that morning) He did and went home. Then E-mailed her after he woke up.

Over the week he had been kind of cold to her, she didnt know what she did but kept being nice. Then at youth friday he didnt show up and had a million excuses. It kind of made her mad cause they were diferent every time she talked to him.

Sunday the last practice until the play:
He came in late . Didnt even look at her and went on with the march, Everytime they passed eachother Cohen would give Brook this cold look. Brook ignored him and went on talking with her friends acting like he wasnt there.

The day of the play:
Cohen's late I mean REAL late Its about to start and hes not here, They get someone else to take his place. Finally Cohen comes and then talks to the leader and then leaves!.
Brook gets home after it and asks Cohen why he was not in the play Cohen said they found someone else so I said good im going to work.
And that was that.

Cohen went on like this for two years of youth and church! Then Grad came and he stopped going to church and youth.
He got super busy with his work or as there was many jobs he worked at through the day it got so bad it was 4 - 5 diferent jobs a week all working then one after another. He didnt have time to do anything except work!.
They talked online here and there not much really and when she started talking to him it sounded forced, So she stopped making conversation and would let him start it. Brook went on with her life and got a boyfriend.One day Cohen saw her picture on msn and Freaked out 'WHOS That?' He asked The only time he would talk to her)
She said Oh him he's my boyfriend.
Cohen never said a word back and logged off.
Then Randomly showed up at her house and talking with her brother making plans with him to do stuff. He never kept them , except a few times of him needing something or being in one of her brothers car videos.
Cohen Showed up at her house after following her brother home from youth, He stood out side talking to her brother and was just stareing at the house. Brook saw him pull up and thought she would go out, She hasnt seen him in a LONG time and she was happily dating someone, She thought it was safe so she waited 10 minutes and then went out side to say hi!, She walked out side and Cohen looked at her in that way that you think he can just see in to your heart and find that one little piece that is deep down inside of her of the love she onces had and was still a little there.
All eyes on her , Her brother wasnt even getting heard Cohen would just talk to her , Her brother excused him self and was going in to eat. Brook said well I should go in and eat as well, See yeah and truned around to walk back up her drive way. Cohen Stopped her by saying "What, Thats it?".
Brook Asked him well what do you want?.
Cohen said I dont know?
Brook walks up to him and Puts out her hand to shake his hand.
Cohen takes her had and Gives her this Big Hug.
Then they say good bye and they leave.

Brook & her Boyfriend Brokeup a month after of them agreeing it just wasnt working out and that it was mutual. Finds out a month later after talking to her ex he had a girlfriend and has had her for a month and a half, That over lapped her!.
She went on with her life and all.
Having to put up with Cohen going back and forth!.

A few months later its easter and Cohen shows up at youth and stays for a coupld of hours hanging out with Brook and her brother. Then says well I gotta go to work now ttyl, Stands there looking at Brook then says it again and stands there for a few minutes then discides to leave. he does and everyone tells Brook to get out side he was looking for a hug lol. Brook walks out side and starts talking to him and all , She opened her arms to him and he gets this big grin on his face and runs up and hugs her BIG, Says well Happy Easter if I dont get to see you again. gets in his car and drives away with abig grin on his face.

After a week from easter he logs on to msn. Doesnt talk to her so she thought she would and Finally She Went up and Asked Him. Is there ever going to be a you and me ?.
Cohen: umm...I dont know, Maybe who know.I gotta go to ball. We well finish this later.
After three weeks he loggs back on.
Brook: Brings up his Box and asks "Are you ready to finish this conversation?"
Cohen:Umm Okay.
Brook: Okay Im gonna ask you once more what do you think of us and will there ever be a you and me together?.Im Sick of sitting here being played with.
Cohen: Maybe, I dont know But I have a girlfriend!.
Cohen: I have to go bye.
Brook: ...

Brook felt like she was going to die , Her Heart had just been ripped out and kicked around for the past 4ish years!.

A Year Later she meets a guy and dates him for 7 months still kind of thinking of Cohen through out the dateing.
Brook brakes up with her boyfriend ,cause they just dont go well together and that they are just to diferent people and Discides shes not going to think of Cohen Anymore and that he is just GONE!(Gone like a fraight train). Then Cohen Randomly calls Brook and asks when youth starts she tells him and he shows up at youth. Brook said hi and then ignored him the 3 hours he was there.
Meets a Great guy, Falls in love and Thats the end of Cohen!.

Like the song says from Adem Gregory - Dont send the invitation if you dont want to party!.