Wednesday, June 6, 2007

Sunday New Years Eve - The Break Up & New Beginings


Sunday morning new years eve.

Jacoba Woke up at 5:30 to work out then get ready for church.
7:35 I comes down stairs and before I run out the door I stop to feed my animals then heads in to town. Im way to early
for whorship practice so I think I'll stop in at my boyfriend Ryans place to
wake him up and maybe he'll discide to come to church for once.
Tyler is out side letting the dog "Nutsy" out when
I pull up in My Black 2005 Dodge 3500 I get out and say hi then I
walk in to the house and to Ryans room pick up the sheets And blanket lifts then up then lets them fall back
down giving him a nice chill to his shirtless back. He jumps up and gives Me
this *What do you think your doing* kind of look! I just stand there and
smile while saying Goodmorning Sweety! In My perky morning voice. Ry then grab his sheets and Blanket Closes his eyes and trys
to sleep .
NO! GET UP I Sherik. Your coming to church with me.
Ryan Gives me this flat out NO!.
I just stands there with this *I'm getting annoyed and I won't stand for
this very long* look on My face.
Ry then looks at Me and sees that I'm serious and getting ticked off.
You know I'm not the "Church going type!" Ryan tells Me.
I say I know!, you've told me many times! but you KNOW how I feel
about it. And you don't seem to care at all!.
WILL YOU KNOW HOW I FEEL! NOW LAY OFF!! Screams Ryan.
FINE THEN! I really can't see the point of staying with you as you dont seem to care about my beliefs or what you made a comitment to when we first started this relastionship! WERE OVER! I scream at him.
I turn around and walk out as I slam his bedroom door.
Ty asks is everything alright. I Said Its Really Great! (In My Cheery Tone), Give him a Hug .Climb in to my truck & blast Karosine by Amanda
Lambert as I drive over to Collens house Who is Like a Bother to me Hes my best friend .I told him everything and just let it all out. I've been needing to
break up with Ryan for afew weeks but couldn't do it and this was just one of
those things you can't over look for to long . Its now 8:30 ,Collen says we need to get you to church for whorship Practice . Collen takes my purse and looks for my keys gives me back the pruse and says I'm driving,We need to stop some place before church.
He pulls in to the drive through at Timdys for an Ice Cap ,Coffe & a dozen
donuts.
Collen Cheers me up in his special Brotherly way that he has, then looks at me and tells me I need to fix my face!.
Oh Thats nice Collen ,Thanks!.
Haha No Problom. But seriously You do! then he pulls down my sunvisor and opens then mirror.
I Look in the Miorror,Theres makup running down my face and I look like i just got Punched out.I Start Re-Applying my makup as we are turnning in the to church parking lot.Before we get out Collen looks at me then stuffs a powder cherry filled donut in my mouth .I chew it fast then I Ask can I now have my keys back?.
Nope you cant! I'm driving us to luch after then were going to Grandmas and Grandpas (They are my Grandma and Grandpa But Collens been around us for so long he thinks of them as his own).We then walk in ,him with his Coffee( Blah!) and I with my ice Cap.Practice is at 10:00 and service starts
at 11:00. After church we get in to the truck & I turn on my Cell ,No
texts, No voice mail ,Nothing!. Collen then grabs the cell out of my hands and puts it in his pocket .I Look at him then say Why did you take my Cell?.
because You dont need it and If it happends that you do I'll answer it and Let you use it ,then he stuffs another donut in my face. As I try and eat it fast so I can talk. Then I scream STOP DOING THAT!.
He Just looks at me and Laughs as he eats one.
We Then pull out of the church parking lot, and we header to Mcy d's for lunch .After Lunch we go over to the club to get set up for our new years eve party.
The rest of the band shows up & helps with setting things up & putting up
decorations . We go over the whole night with eachother, Like when the band is suposed to be up there and which bands go up at what time,When there is Karaoke and so forth.
4:00
Collen and I head to Grandma & Grandpa Andersons house for the family sunday
supper.
The Party starts at 9:00 so we stayed at Grandma and Grandpas till 7:00,They live about 45 minutes out of town. We Arive at Jays Night Club on 8th at 7:55. Jay Closes the bar to the public for Special events like this.Jay's Body gaurds are at all the doors, Only People on the list are allowed in ,150 of our closest friends are coming and on that list. Most everyone who helped plan this thing are there already The bands set up and sitting at the bar.I brought My Fiddle & My Guitar and place them behind the stage wall.Then I go to the bar,As The first 50 people walk in Im Standing behind the bar making a drink ,after an hour of being there the place has filled up And there are a load of boxs and Bottles by the bar,Everyone who was invited had to bring drinks of some sort and or something to eat ,like chips or what ever, I Brought Tons of appitizers I made ahead of time. It is now time for me to go up there and get it started as I walk up to the stage and look over all the poeple to see whos come I see Ryan and Tyler standing there looking at me while the're talking to Kevin And Trista, And There is This one Guy Standing there with Devin,I dont know who he is but He's Cute and He's Smiling AT me!. I start speaking while the band is gettin ready behind me.Hey Ya'll ,Hows it going everyone? Excited to get this night started? I say to the crowd as I'm trying not to let Ryan bother me But Stareing at the Tall Dark Cutie In The Middle of the room. The Whole Crowd starts cheering, Okay everyone this is the plan for tonight to kick it off is MiddleTin,then we got Karaoke for two hours, After that we got the Hick town girls And Then us the Hick Town Girls Count it down to New Years!. Theres Drinks on the right! And Food on the Back wall. Ya'll have Fun ALRIGHT!.My Band Middle-Tin Starts it off As I sing The Cutie moves to the front with Devin.He stares right in to the eyes and smiles.Its this amazing look that Hits you hard in the heart,It feels Great with this tingle. After an hour we Finish off playing and we get the stage ready for karaoke. I walked to the bar to see Danielle & Dan (They have been going out since me and Collen first brought them together when we were 16,They are now engaged as of last week on the 25th)Devin and The Cutie Move to the back of the room by Danie and Dan Where I was now. Danie Gives me a Big hug then hands me Martini and asks so have you seen him here yet.
Yep sure have. He was like one of the first 50 to walk through the door.But I see Someone else who is in my eyes view,He's looking at us right now.She turns and looks to the spot where I am stareing at.
Yeah he's right over there with Tyler walking this way Dan tells us.
Collen comes up from behind me and Lifts me on to his shoulders and says your gonna sing a song with me ,Right as Devin and the Tall Dark Cutie are walking over to where I was ,but Im not there Im on my way to the front!
He places me on the stage and picks out the song, Its play somethin country by Brooks and Dunn, Excepts its more like re written by Jacoba And Collen!.
Its good we made it a duet. Then Court,Britt,Danie and Alexa Run up on stage and we play Dont Cha by the Pussy Cat dolls again we changed it to country,I was the lead singer as I am in my bands . Everyone liked it ,even the ones that dont really like country!.The Tall Dark Cuite again at the front Wow He's HOT!.
We get off and The Girls grab me . we Go hide! Lol Okay not really but we kinda moved in a group around Ryan trying not to be seen, Success! Were through!, I stayed on the Stairs with the group until Hick Town Girls had to go up(Tonight I wasnt singing by my self I was with my bands)
.The Downside to this group move was I had to Sacrifice Not meeting this Tall Dark Cuite Upside is I wasnt any where near Ryan!.
Karaoke ends and we get back to the stage sang a few skaskatoon hits of ours then we counted down to new years.Then it was just the DJ Who played after that for the rest of the night.
Soon everyone left and so did we. We all have to meet back here tomorrow to clean up so Jay can have his Club Back in order and running.
I successfully passed Ryan the whole night. Except I got home and Had two Messages from him ,But Collen just earased them.
So I have no clue what he all said. Collen was sleeping in his old room down in the basment because he knew that Ryan would be coming over at some point and Ryan being drunk would have made it all worse.
7:00 Am I get out of bed and head downstairs to eat Skiping my work out but still feeling Really great!, I went out side to feed the animals then Came back inside to feed those ones,I Couldnt for the life of me get The Tall Dark Guy out of my head!. I would Ask Devin but I dont really know him since he has only been going to the church for a year and kinda sticks with his family. Collen got up at 2:00 ,Soon after Danie and Dan came over the guys went up stairs to the 3rd level where the reck room/Sports room is.(Im a Huge sports fan) Danie and I wentinto the Hot tub and had some girl talk which was the Tall Dark Dude at the Club who was with Devin that we both dont know. Afew days have went by and Only two E-mails, One Text and 5 Voice mails a Day later. And No Sign of the tall Dark Dude!. Friday coms and Ryan stops in by Collens work to talk to him about me. 3 Hours later Collen Stops in to eat before we go out with our friends,He Tells me everything Ryan Said and Sudggested I talk with him, As I had planned from the start but was waiting a bit for him to relize what was going on.
Saturday morning!.
I get out of bed at 5;30 Work out, Shower, Eat and then Go shopping But before shopping I stopped in at Ryans. Nice and Early so hes still in bed.
I pull up to his house Again Ty is out side with Nusty and Tells me to just walk in! My Pleasure in deed I walk in and to his room , Lift up the Blanket and Sheets to let them Float down again giving him that nice chill!(I love doing that) He Jumps up and looks at me then gives me a hug, I push him off and I tell him we need to talk this over!. He agrees and Puts on some pants.We talk it over as he sits on his bed and Me in his Computer chair. 30 minutes go by and we talked it over, Were all good now and I left. Fast and Easy is how I like it!. Finish Shopping and Lunch with My Mom ,Dad, 7 Year Old sister Bridgett,16 Year Old Brother Matt and sister Amy, Oldest Brother Jered,Wife Lexi, Kids Hannah-Leigh,Bryerlee & Sarah, Oldest Sister Mia ,Husband George, Twin Boys Colsen & Kody, 22 Year old Brother Dean And Wife Sam. I Go on with my day .Soon Its sunday and Guess whos there but the tall Dark Dude with Devin!.